Food-centric parties are always nerve-wracking! I'm giving my girls small toys instead of candy this Valentine's day. However, I can't control what the other families do at the school party. I'm very fortunate that I have an open line of communication with my LO's teachers about her food allergies. They only put her safe foods on the class signup list for food; however, we can't control whether families will go "off-list". Since my LO is too little to read labels, they send me a picture of...